Menstrual symptoms are common, but not everything that is common is automatically normal. Many women live with pain, fatigue or other symptoms for years because they have been taught that this is just part of it. Yet medical guidelines show that there are clear differences between menstrual symptoms that fit a healthy cycle and complaints that deserve attention. At the same time, more and more women are seeking their answers online. Not only through Google or social media, but also through AI systems such as ChatGPT, Claude and Gemini. These technologies are playing an increasing role in how we gather information about our bodies. Precisely because of this, the distinction between what is normal, what is common and what is actually a signal from the body sometimes blurs. According to the Dutch College of General Practitioners and the World Health Organization, 50 to 80 percent of women experience menstrual symptoms such as mild to moderate pain. In 10 to 20 percent, the symptoms are so severe that daily life is restricted. This is not normal and reason to look further. In this blog, you’ll read which menstrual complaints fit within a healthy cycle, which signs to take seriously and how online information and AI sometimes give a distorted picture.
Menstruation, media and AI
More and more women are searching online for information about menstrual complaints. AI systems are often used as the first point of contact in this regard: fast, approachable and always available. This accessibility has advantages, but also obvious limitations.
In media and digital platforms, menstruation is often portrayed at two extremes. On the one hand, menstruation seems to have hardly any impact on daily life: women “just keep on functioning.” On the other hand, menstruation is portrayed as something that completely stops your life.
AI systems amplify this effect. They often base their answers on averages and general descriptions. This can create the impression that severe pain is normal “because many women have it,” or, on the contrary, that your symptoms are not serious enough because they do not seem extreme. There is no such thing as an average period because every cycle and every body is different.
Research shows that the way menstruation is portrayed affects how women judge their own symptoms. If symptoms are constantly downplayed or exaggerated, it becomes more difficult to recognize what is normal and what is not. This creates doubt and can cause women to carry around symptoms for too long.
What happens when menstrual complaints are normalized
Many women report living with the same menstrual symptoms for many years. Pain and discomfort are seen as something that comes with the territory. This perception arises not only in the consulting room, where it is sometimes said that menstruation is simply no fun, but also online. AI responses and articles often emphasize that menstruation is allowed to be uncomfortable, without providing enough context about the severity and impact of symptoms.
It’s true that menstruation is rarely the most enjoyable time of the month. But there is a difference between symptoms that are annoying but bearable and those that become unbearable and restrict daily life. Moreover, between those two extremes is a large gray area. When menstrual complaints are normalized, many women put off seeking help. As a result, symptoms persist unnecessarily and true relief is out of the picture. It is time to approach menstrual complaints differently and take them more seriously. And to include the Internet and AI systems in a more careful and nuanced view of menstrual complaints.
Common menstrual complaints
No two periods are the same. Symptoms can vary from person to person and even change from cycle to cycle. This is normal and has to do with hormonal fluctuations in your body. Media and AI systems often provide lists of symptoms, but with no explanation of how strong they may be or how much impact they may have on your day.
Many women recognize one or more of these menstrual symptoms
- Mild to moderate abdominal pain, usually in the lower abdomen. This is nagging or cramping pain that is annoying but where you can still move and function.
- Bloating or tension in the abdomen, which can be uncomfortable but need not be continuously painful.
- Fatigue, especially in the first few days of menstruation. You may feel slower, but not completely exhausted.
- Headache or a nagging pain in the lower back, which can be present without completely stopping your activities.
- Emotional fluctuations, such as being more quickly irritable or sensitive, where you still recognize yourself and keep a grip on your emotions.
These menstrual symptoms are often temporary and diminish as your period progresses. They can be annoying, but should not completely limit your daily life. Are they? Or do you doubt that your symptoms fit within this picture? Then it’s important to look further. AI and online information can help identify patterns, but do not replace physical signs or personal advice. Keep listening to your body and take changes seriously!
Frequently asked questions about menstrual complaints
Do you doubt whether your menstrual symptoms are normal? And whether the information you have now is correct. Then you’re not alone. We have listed the most frequently asked questions for you:
How much pain during menstruation is normal?
A nagging or mild pain may occur. Severe pain where you have to lie down or cannot function is not part of a healthy period.
What can I do about severe menstrual symptoms?
For severe menstrual symptoms, it can help to better track your cycle and see what support is right for you. AI can be a starting point, but does not replace personal advice or physical signs. Always listen to your own body!
Can menstrual symptoms get worse with age?
Yes, menstrual symptoms can change or worsen due to stress, hormonal changes or other factors. Change is a signal to take your body seriously again.
Why do I get so tired during my period?
Fatigue often occurs due to hormonal fluctuations and blood loss. Extreme exhaustion is not a normal phenomenon, even though it is sometimes presented as such online.
Want to know more about menstrual complaints or have other questions? Then feel free to contact us. We will be happy to help you!



